In a pursue–withdraw dynamic, both partners are trying to protect the relationship, just in opposite ways. The more one pushes to talk, the more the other feels overwhelmed and tries to shut the conflict down. Over time, frustration rises, criticism comes out, and the withdrawing partner pulls away even faster… creating a painful feedback loop that leaves both people feeling alone and misunderstood. Noticing this pattern together is the first step toward slowing it down and rebuilding a sense of
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